8 powerful reasons to always believe in yourself

8 reasons to believe in yourself

We all have self-doubt from time to time and it is normal. After having a job rejection which you really wanted to get, after a breakup in what you put your whole soul and body, after failing an exam for which you studied hours and hours – you name it – it is common to feel a bit low. Of course, you had high hopes and things didn’t work out as you wanted to. Give yourself time to be emotional but then step up again and believe that next time it will happen!

Why is important to believe in yourself?

You are the one who manages your life. It is never luck, never fate (okay, maybe sometimes we can call it), never up to someone else. It is always you.

1. You are the one who pushes yourself to go forward – after a rough patch, you need the energy to leave any failure and negativity behind yourself, try again and do it better.

2. Believing yourself gives you confidence – you can do it, you are worth it, you will reach any success that you have in mind. Never give up after the first try.

3. You know what your goal is, – what you are capable of and what your lack of skills to reach it is. Knowing yourself helps you to figure out the next step which brings you closer to your goal.

4. You can more likely to ignore jealous people negativity and destroying opinion, if you have a strong vision and belief – there is always someone who is afraid to take an opportunity what you are going to and they try to stop you just because they don’t have the courage to live their life.

5. It definitely makes you stronger – you learn how to get through difficult situations, you know you are able to pick yourself up (as you did it before) and you can wipe off any negative thoughts you have and give your 100% again to do it.

6. You can motivate yourself – you don’t need to wait for someone to push you. You will be your own support who is always available.

7. You can adapt to a new situation – or circumstances because you are not afraid of any changes.

8. Your positive attitude will help you to succeed – when you believe in you can do anything even after failing it, it will push you to try until you reach your success.  

You have the power of belief. It always starts with you, with a positive mindset, no matter how many times you need to try it. If you want it, you can reach it. 

How can you get out of your comfort zone?

How to get out of your comfort zone

Same flat, same job, same friends, same supermarket to go. How convenient is it?! It definitely is.

I used to be terrified of new situations, I was not comfortable to extend my friend’s circle or just speak in front of a group. I am still not a fan of being in the center of anything, but I am confident enough to be the person who steps up when there is a need. Continue reading

Time of self-reflection

self-reflection

They say until situations are happening again and again, you still need to learn something from it. The tricky part is that you don’t know what it could be!

It can be a colleague who you have a fight with all times but then changing your job, you find yourself in the same shoes. So, what you need to learn? It could be more empathy towards different personalities or more understanding of other beliefs and working style. Continue reading

Get the blame for a kind thing you have done

Get the blame for a kind thing you have done

What an amazing feeling could it be?!

Well yeah, I definitely feel it from time to time. Have you ever heard a sentence “once my big heart will kill me”. So you know what I am talking about…

I have learned to say no for a long time ago now… It makes my life easier and protects me from unnecessary drama and conflict which I am not into at all. Sometimes, I still put others above me and in the end, I am the one who hurts the most. Continue reading

Would your 5 years younger self be proud?

Would your 5 years younger self be proud

 

Yes… no… maybe… I don’t know…

There are so many different answers we can get. I think it all depends on what matters? How we measure success or happiness? How we measure proudness? What do you want to achieve to be proud of yourself? List things to own? Milestones you have reached that you set for yourself by the age of 25? 30? 40…? Do you consider happiness as something to be proud of? Continue reading

Find every day’s purpose

each day has its purpose

Usually, I wake up with a “let’s-do-it” attitude and carry on task from my to-do list. I am very satisfied when I can tick off something from my never-ending list.

One of the days in the middle of the lockdown (who knows which week or day was it…) I had a day when I woke up with a fed-up feeling. I felt like ah… it is a new day. What shall I do today? I felt like this day will be exactly the same as many others before. Cooking, exercising, studying, watching series, blogging – just to name a few. I was not in a mood to do anything super productive. Instead, I was scrolling my Insta, making comments and listening to music and just singing. Thankfully, nobody was a witness to my voice. 😀 Continue reading

Why I am grateful for each babysteps?

Why I am grateful for each babysteps

I am in the middle of my room around a big mess and trying to put my life into boxes. We are moving into a new flat on Saturday.

I am trying to sort out what comes and what goes to charity – when they will open again… My London-life… It happened 6 years ago. I packed a bag and booked a flight to London. I would say it definitely was the best decision in my life.

So many things have happened since I arrived in this (for me) new country. I have had different jobs, apartments, opportunities to grab and lose. I have become friends with so many people and lost connection with so many from the past.

Every step was about moving forward and each move was a bit better than the previous one. I always have had a bigger picture in my mind where I am and where I want to be. Sometimes I could move on quickly, but sometimes time just didn’t want to come.

Working on better chances, circumstances or just call it life is hard effort. These 6 years have taught me whatever want to do in your life is only up to you and your dedication to that goal.

Whatever stage you are in your life it can be better and it will be better. You are the one who can decide what you want and have endurance working on it and make sacrifices.

Change your habit, change your mindset and realize you are the leader of your life. Before that, you always would blame your circumstances, your past, people around you, not having enough opportunity to break out of your current conditions.

 

Don’t give up. Remember if ‘Plan A’ didn’t work, the alphabet has 25 more letters! Keep going on!

Get inspired or be inspiration

Get inspired or be inspired

I have read a blog post from a writer who apparently a blogger as well. This post was about that he writes about what he wants, not about an expected topic, because his blog is his blank space. This stack in my mind! How true is it! Continue reading

You are not late from anything

You are not late from anything

Another birthday, another cake, another candle at the top. Yep, I have a birthday this Friday. Khm… Thirty-something…

I used to hate my birthdays when I was younger because it always reminded me how my real life is different than it was in my dreams.

I am okay with it for a few years now, of course, but I don’t make a big fuss about it. It is just a number and doesn’t mean much anymore. Continue reading